We can help others only when we make ourselves capable Enough to do so!
Obviously, the same people whom you offer an help today may consume all your help and may cause you to become needy. It’s harsh but at times may be true.
For example, During Rains You can offer to share your umbrella only when YOU yourself have it.(Excluding couples😎☺, cause they can do anything, but wait your partner will not be very happy if you catch cold, hence don’t forget to carry two umbrellas, if you really care for each other.)