When your mind is independent, You are strengthened to make your own choices,
It does not necessarily mean you don’t need the advice,experience and blessings of Elders to reinforce your choices!!
Basically you don’t want to have a dispute over the choices and hence you don’t care to share it with your elders(obviously, your parents!) who have taken enough decisions to make you wise enough to take your own decisions.
Think about it!! Talk about it! And Don’t be judgemental.
A famous bollywood flick showcases a monologue of Bollywood megastar Amitabh Bachchan saying ,
” Yeh world hai naa world, isme do tarah ke log hote hain ” ( The world essentially consists of two categories of people.)
Taking his words a little ahead, I personally believe there are ACTUALLY, 3 categories of people in our world.
The first category consists of the people who actually believe in carrying out the things in a simple manner and not just planning them or showing off whatever big things they might have achieved or whatever successes might have resulted from their efforts. They seem to be confident about the things they do, the requisite amount of work that needs to be put into accomplishing a particular task or achieving a goal are essentially pre-planned and effectively implemented by them.
The second category of people are those who put in rigorous amount of efforts in magnifying their deeds, good or bad, whatever it may be actually; to an extent much ahead of their true sense of contributing to accomplishing a task or getting things done in a better manner. They tend to project themselves in a fashion as to “sell” themselves better. They are not at all concerned with the real work, instead they’re busy in showing off the stuffs, which may be clearly understood by the famous proverb, ” All that glitters is not Gold “
The third category of people are the most interesting ones. They are so well off their personality insights, that they intelligently combine both these categories, extracting the requisite qualities and strategies, as and when desired. They plan , they do the things as well as showcase themselves in an even polished manner than the category two people. One good thing about them is, they work really hard as they completely mesmerise other peopld by their plans, thoughts , action ,presentation skills and confidence. They are unparallel in a true sense.
Time to ponder over the type of category, you belong to
If you do find more of these, then do mention in the comment box!