She always lived for others,
She carved a smile on everyone,
She cared like a Mother and Loved like a Father,
She sacrificed so much, cut a part of her needs, neglected her essentials to fulfill the greed-because she hardly knew it was such,
She accepted the pains, troubles, struggles whole heartedly,
She convinced herself everytime they inflicted it upon her,
She always thought they were her own,
But they always proved that they were ‘Others’!
But she will rise once again, she will gain the strength they drained out, she will convince herself once more, she will , she will….and guess what she just started off!!
Be good to the people who value you,
Be worst to the people who don’t!
Don’t waste you time in pleasing the people who don’t have anything for you! It takes time to identify but once you’ve done that; You will be the best decision maker ever!
Things don’t change unless we want them to,
The world doesn’t become bright unless the people want it to!
What do you want? Time to ponder! Do let me know your views.
There are two kinds of people in my life,
‘Me'(Basically me and my immediate family) and ‘others’,
While Others wanted to know about me; I wanted to know, why do they want to know about me;
While others wanted to know my rank in the class, I again wanted to know, why they are so keen to know my rank;
While others always imposed their decisions on me, I wanted to know if there’s any difference between their suggestion and the decision that they imposed,
While others wanted to know every year which standard I was promoted to, I wanted to know whether they were so particular with their promotions too;
While others wanted to know, which carreer was I going to pursue, I wondered that they seem to be so well versed in counselling!
While others wanted to know which Job I got, I winked, they are not going to get a single penny out of it, yet why are they so much interested;
While other wanted to know which girl I was going to marry, I just wanted to know ‘Oh! They are Experts in marriage counselling too?’
While I wanted to know when will they stop butting their nose in my life, They simply seem to know much more than me,even about my next life!!😀😀😀
You must go through it else you don’t need to read it at all!
Okay! Imagine yourself. You’ve written an awesome article. You’ve put so much of efforts in elucidating each fact, polishing each experience, living every feeling, and jotting down all what compelled you to think.
You choose a very beautiful ‘Featured Image’ that relates pretty well with your post. And then you publish it.
After 6 hours( If you’re really strong enough to hold you thumb for so long!!) When you check for the reviews by other bloggers, I bet , you will have enough of likes but nearly half the no. Of views and so ‘Down to Earth’ no. Of comments actually complimenting your work!!
You turn gloomy and after repeated number of such Instances, you will be like ‘Aahhh!! Blogging is not for me! I will straight away write down a BestSeller Book!!!😎’
That’s it! Your WordPress journey is over!
Here comes the importance of REBLOGS!
Imagine that while sailing across, a very experienced blogger finds your post to be really awesome and He/She reblogs your post and this in turn brings you in contact with so many of other Bloggers and Editors who are in touch with this experienced blogger and guess what, here you are getting huge traffic, huge no. Of follows and even better no. Of quality bloggers whose mere contact can boost your blogging career like anything!!
And then you too can brag about ‘How to be rich and famous!!😎😊’
So basically,(especially for those of you who skipped the part above despite my pleadings!!😊) here is how Reblog helps you:
- Reblogs not necessarily mean sharing, but they mean ‘Sharing a quality content’ and so the moment your post gets reblogged you can be sure that your writing skills are really improving with time.
- Every time someone reblogs your post, in a way he/she links your post to their page and hence open your blog for a double amount of traffic.
- You get more attention by the audiences related to your niche, which helps you to become a popular name in that particular niche.(Just like, if Bruce Lee had done Romantic movies unlike Action ones, then probably the world may have known him in an entirely different way, which obviously was not his niche.)
- Sharing is Caring is what justifies Reblogs totally, in addition ‘Sharing’ may also help you to add some dollars to your account😎
- Discover posts are obviously known to all the Bloggers I guess where the WordPress guys pick up an interesting post and the whole world peeps into it, imagine the amount of traffic!! Imagined? Okay, Reblogged posts often have high probabilities to find a way to these Discover posts!!
- What is my profit if I reblog others’ posts? That it will definitely fetch you ‘more’ views if you’re too busy to compile your posts and your stats are struggling hard to find a peak!
- Last but certainly not the least, they help you find some really wonderful people across the globe sharing similar mindset as yours and they too shall be happy to have you in their lives. Or in a nutshell, IT WILL HELP YOI BUILD STRONG RELATIONSHIPS IN THE VIRTUAL WORLD WHICH MAY TURN TO BE THE SAME IN THE REAL WORLD AS WELL!!☺
Its when you are sandwiched between ‘likes’ and ‘views’, Reblog comes to your rescue!!
Talking and sharing experiences is something that has been lost over the time into the dreary deserts of Loneliness, Self Confinement and Exclusive Technology of the kind of ‘Personal’ technologies.
People find it better to share their experiences on blogs and social networks rather than discussing it among themselves. Technology driven friendship has grown to such an extend that today Facebook reminds us ‘Okay! It’s your friend’s birthday today! Plan something great!’. Yet, do we really plan? No we don’t.
Rather, we google search for a beautiful ‘Happy Birthday Greetings’ poster and copy and paste the same on to the walls of our friends. And mind it, you do this to the friend who is CURRENTLY associated with you. What about other friends, with whom the only thread of friendship is on Facebook! Ohh! We don’t even give a damn about them. Who cares to visit the wall even!!
Why has this happened?
Because we have stopped talking and started surfing more often. And It doesn’t mean I am an exception to this. Not at all! I even do the same. Probably the people mould you in a way you don’t want to, but ultimately they win in doing so.
Can we loose like this to ourselves?
No we should not!
We must at least try to improve upon and keep a balance between the real and the Virtual world.
For there are so many friends when you are online,
But once you switch off the data, No friend exists beside you!!
Okay if you haven’t just scrolled it all along, let me know your views on this!
More Importantly spread the word not just in the virtual world but also in the real world. Talk to people, tell them why everyone today is so stressed out that he/she talks or scribbles his/her thoughts only with Phone or a diary. Why not discuss it with your Parents, siblings and Friends who are actually there in your lives. You may not need to find them in clouds storages!!
When your mind is independent, You are strengthened to make your own choices,
It does not necessarily mean you don’t need the advice,experience and blessings of Elders to reinforce your choices!!
Basically you don’t want to have a dispute over the choices and hence you don’t care to share it with your elders(obviously, your parents!) who have taken enough decisions to make you wise enough to take your own decisions.
Think about it!! Talk about it! And Don’t be judgemental.
The amount of rays reaching the Earth is similar to knowledge and experiences that reach our mind and soul during the journey of our lives!!
Absorb and re radiate!!
When you make others happy, its not just that their facial muscles flex,
as a matter of fact you are the reason for healing of infinite number of Nerve cells in the brain as well as the cells across the entire body.
So, we must not hesitate to be the reason for someone’s smile.(even yours!)
In addition we must value the people who heal us by making us smile.
The train rattled past the metal tracks, through some amazing landscapes and even Amazing people.
They reflected much more than they could have ever absorbed. Something that may be beyond realisation and rational thinking. Something that’s an integral part of all of us’ but we fail to acknowledge the same !!
And as I looked out of the window, I could see a Father holding hand of his daughter and probably telling her the stories of the world.
Making her realize the beauty of Nature,the tranquility hidden in the smell of the soil,
the essentials of becoming a good human being,the importance of Education,
the intricacies in childhood that she needed to learn, the world and the people ,
that there are loads of Bad people but also there are enough of good people, as well!
That we need to find out the actual one!!
The little girl smiled and the moment, innocence being the reason!!